Born on February 22

The pattern of your day

Born on February 22, you forgive before any repair is possible, and Pisces water thereby closes the only exit they had.

You forgive before anybody has done anything to deserve it. Often before they have finished apologising. Occasionally before they have registered that there was a problem at all.

It feels like generosity from where you stand, and it is offered as generosity, and you have never once thought of it as anything else.

From their side it is a door closing.

You have taken away the only thing available to them. A person who has done something wrong needs to do something about it, and the doing is what converts the incident into a thing that happened rather than a thing that is still happening. You waved it off. Now they are carrying it with no way to put it down, and some of them are still carrying it.

The other half of the cost is yours. Nothing was settled, and an account that is closed prematurely does not stay closed. It reopens years later, in an odd tone during an unrelated argument, and neither of you can trace where it came from.

Let them repair it. Not as punishment. It is the only thing that actually ends the matter.

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Birth hexagrams for February 22, by year

What is a Birth Hexagram?

Your Birth Hexagram Triad is three things at once: a Primary Hexagram (who you are), a Changing Line (your growth edge), and a Resultant Hexagram (who you are becoming). It is computed, not guessed, from the Chinese lunar calendar via the Plum Blossom method.

Read more about the Birth Hexagram Triad, or see how we calculate for the arithmetic shown openly.

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