Born on September 30

The pattern of your day

Born on September 30, you keep an exact record of what is reciprocated, and Libra air downgrades people silently instead of saying so.

An invitation that is never returned is not a friendship, it is hospitality, and the difference becomes obvious around the third or fourth time.

You keep an accurate account of these things and you are slightly ashamed of it. You notice who reciprocates and who receives, you have decided more than once that noticing makes you petty, and you have gone on noticing anyway.

The last of the September air weighs the exchange. That is not pettiness. A relationship is a structure, structures carry loads, and pretending otherwise does not distribute them more fairly. It only hides where they fell.

What you do with the information is the actual question. You have historically done nothing, absorbed the imbalance, and quietly downgraded the relationship without telling anybody it had happened.

Downgrading somebody silently is the version that keeps the peace and ends the friendship anyway.

Say it instead. Most people are not withholding. They simply have not been counting, and would be mortified to learn the score.

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Birth hexagrams for September 30, by year

What is a Birth Hexagram?

Your Birth Hexagram Triad is three things at once: a Primary Hexagram (who you are), a Changing Line (your growth edge), and a Resultant Hexagram (who you are becoming). It is computed, not guessed, from the Chinese lunar calendar via the Plum Blossom method.

Read more about the Birth Hexagram Triad, or see how we calculate for the arithmetic shown openly.

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